The Time We Don’t Respect

The worn leather of the armchair creaked softly under Maya’s weight. She gazed out the window, watching as the city lights blurred into a hazy swirl of color, but her mind wasn’t on the view. It was somewhere else—stuck between the echoes of yesterday’s failure and the looming worries of tomorrow.

Her grandmother, sitting nearby with knitting in her lap, noticed the distant look in Maya’s eyes. She had seen this many times before—the subtle signs of someone lost in thought, disconnected from the world around them. Setting her knitting aside, she leaned forward slightly.

“Maya?” she asked softly. “Where are you?”

Maya blinked and turned to her grandmother, confusion flickering across her face. “What do you mean? I’m right here.”

Her grandmother smiled gently, her eyes filled with the wisdom of someone who had long since learned to be truly present. “Physically, yes. But where are your thoughts? Are you here with me, in this moment, or somewhere else?”

Maya hesitated, her gaze dropping to her hands. “I guess… I’m not really here,” she admitted. “I’ve been thinking about that test I failed yesterday, and I can’t stop worrying about the presentation tomorrow. It feels like my mind is always racing between the past and the future, and I’m never… just here.

Her grandmother’s smile deepened, a knowing glint in her eyes. “That’s the trouble, isn’t it?” she said softly. “So many of us spend our lives trapped in the past or anxious about the future. We rarely take the time to be truly present in the now.”

“But how do I stop?” Maya asked, frustration creeping into her voice. “How do I stop worrying about what’s already happened and what might go wrong tomorrow?”

Her grandmother leaned back in her chair, letting the question settle. “The past is a place we can’t return to, and the future is a place we can’t reach just yet. If we spend all our time there, we’re robbing ourselves of the only thing we truly have—today, this moment. Worrying about the past causes us to carry unnecessary weight, and anxiety about the future keeps us from living. The present moment is all we have, and it’s what shapes our tomorrow.”

Maya sighed, her shoulders relaxing a little. “But what if I fail again? What if I mess up tomorrow?”

“Then you face it when it comes,” her grandmother said, her voice calm and steady. “But worrying about it now only steals your peace. By being present today, you prepare yourself for whatever tomorrow holds. And if you keep focusing on this moment, on doing your best right now, you’ll find that tomorrow takes care of itself.”

Maya took a deep breath, letting her grandmother’s words sink in. As she looked out the window again, the city lights no longer seemed overwhelming. There was a new kind of clarity in the night. She wasn’t stuck in yesterday or tomorrow anymore—she was right here, in this moment, and that was enough.


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